I have been craving something sweet and chocolatey for the last two weeks, so when I came across a gravestone recipe for chocolate oatmeal cookies, I knew I had to try them. The bonus is that it’s a no-bake recipe!
This recipe is found on the gravestone of Bonnie June Rainey Johnson, who is laid to rest in Nome City Cemetery in Nome, Alaska. Johnson, also known as the “driver’s license lady”, worked for the Division of Motor Vehicles in Nome until she retired in 2000, after 30 years of service.1She was also known for the sweetness of her no-bake chocolate oatmeal cookies.2 In interviews, Johnsons’ daughter Julie, has said that even the person who cleared the snow from their front yard made sure to do a good job because they would get payment in a batch of these cookies.2 Johnson loved spending time in the kitchen, cooking dishes that brought her family and friends together.1
Bonnie Johnson was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s in 2004 and moved to Anchorage to be with her daughter in her final days. She passed away peacefully on May 8, 2007, surrounded by family.1 She was 71.Her famous oatmeal cookie recipe was inscribed on her gravestone in 2007, along with an image of a Cool Whip container—She was known to collect dozens of them!2
Chocolate Oatmeal Cookie recipe on the gravestone of Bonnie Johnson. Photo by Find a Grave contributor, Janelle Otton. Photo used with permission.
Here is the recipe, as written on the black granite obelisk:
Chocolate Oatmeal Cookies (No Bake)
Everyone’s favorite
2 Cups of Sugar
1/2 Cup of Milk
1/4 Cup of Cocoa (Swiss Miss)
1/4 Cup of Margarine (1 Stick)
Bring to a full boil in a saucepan
Remove from heat and let stand for 5 minutes
Then add
3 Cups of Quick Oats
2 Tablespoons of Peanut Butter
2 Teaspoons of Vanilla
Drop on Wax Paper and Let Set Until Firm
Making the Recipe
This recipe is high on my list for being so easy to make. I had all the ingredients on hand, which was nice as I didn’t have to make an extra grocery trip. I did make one substitution though, as I didn’t have any Swiss Miss cocoa, only a generic store-brand version.
The recipe is very straightforward to follow. There are also not many steps so it was a quick recipe to make. I added the ingredients in the order they were listed, making sure the margarine was melted and everything was well incorporated. I brought it all to a boil, making sure to watch it so it didn’t burn. I then removed it from the heat and let it sit for five minutes.
During this time, I prepared two baking sheets with wax paper. I was not sure how big of a batch this recipe would make, but I thought two cookie sheets would be a good start.
After the five minutes, the chocolate mixture had a bit of a film on it. I didn’t stir it, but instead just added in the next ingredients. At this point I did change the order of things, adding the vanilla and peanut butter first. My thought was to melt the peanut butter to better incorporate it into the mixture. Then I added the quick oats, doing so a little at a time and mixing it well.
All that was left to do was to drop the mixture onto the waxed paper and let them set. Using two spoons, I made my cookies a little too big on the first sheet. I only fit six cookies on a sheet. I spread them fairly thin but they were large. On the second cookie sheet, I tried to pull it back a bit and make smaller dollops, which I flattened out a little after all the remaining mixture had been spooned onto the sheet. The second cookie sheet had about 12 cookies on it.
Chocolate Oatmeal Cookies. Recipe from the gravestone of Bonnie Johnson.
Because I made one sheet of larger cookies, I opted to put that one in the freezer to set. The second cookie sheet I put in the fridge to set. After a couple of hours, I pulled out the tray in the fridge to give them a try.
They turned out so good! I was a little nervous, considering my problems with the last gravestone recipe I tried. But I think there was no way to mess this one up. I was afraid they were going to be too sweet, but the oatmeal helps cut some of the sweetness, I think.
Chocolate Oatmeal Cookies. Recipe from the gravestone of Bonnie Johnson.
This is a great recipe, and I think will be my go-to the next time I need to whip something up fast the night before a family gathering, to share.
Have you tried this recipe? Do you have a favorite recipe that you would put on your gravestone? I would love to read about it in the comments.
One of my favorite things about visiting cemeteries is that you never know what you are going to find, and that’s exactly what this month’s cemetery book review is all about.
Unusual Gravestones by Martin and Claire Nicholson is a collection of unusual and interesting gravestones that this couple has photographed over the years. The Nicholson’s seem like kindred spirits, as they both enjoy photographing and documenting cemeteries and have been doing so for quite some time. They have added an interesting element to their graveyard wandering, they call it “competitive grave-hunting”.
“The authors have viewed millions of gravestones, and are offering readers a selection of the rare and unusual gravestones that they have seen, with full-color illustrations. Each category of type of gravestone, age of person, cause of death, rare names, and errors found on gravestones are given a points score to indicate rarity.”
Unusual Gravestones by Martin and Claire Nicholson
Published in 2015, this small softcover book is a collection of Martin and Claire Nicholson’s Cemetery Project. They began this project looking specifically for centenarians, those who reached the age of 100 years or more. Along the way, they discovered other unique gravestones. They separate their finds based on age, marriage, cause and manner of death as well as shape and material of the gravestone among other things. They have assigned a point system to all of these identifiers. It’s interesting to note that gravestone symbols don’t feature in their point system, as they seem to focus on epitaphs more than anything else.
It’s a pretty interesting concept and not something I can say I have ever thought of doing. The book features color photographs that highlight some very unique gravestones. Sometimes only showing the relevant engraved epitaphs.
The Nicholsons seem to be based in the UK, as this book and their accompanying website highlight many cemeteries and gravestones in that area. I found it interesting to see what kind of gravestones can be found in that part of the world. I thought it was a nice touch that they included a list of helpful tips for grave-hunting. However, I will note that I always prefer overcast days for cemetery visits as a photographer.
Although I think this book could use a little design polish, it is a fun little read and could be a good way to add a little competitive edge to your outings. The point system is well laid out in the book, with accompanying examples. It would be easy to adopt it for yourself or use it as a starting point for developing your own system. As the authors note in the introduction, some graveyards will have more commonalities than others, and I have found that the same can be said for whole geographic locations.
What do you think? Is this something you already do on your cemetery visits? Will you be adding Unusual Gravestones to your reading list? I would love to read your thoughts in the comments.
Thanks for reading!
I am always on the hunt for cemetery-related book recommendations. Please feel free to share yours in the comments. If you are an author and have a cemetery-related book you would like me to review, please reach out at hello@chantallarochelle.ca. I would love to hear from you.
Did you know that May is Cemetery Appreciation Month?
I first found out about this observance in 2021 when I saw similar posts circulating on social media from others who frequent cemeteries. I have been celebrating ever since!
I’m not sure when this celebratory month was first recognized. But, I did learn that in May 2009, the Iowa Governor proclaimed the month of May to be Cemetery Appreciation Month, to honor the importance of cemeteries:
“Whereas, pride and respect for our pioneers leads to an interest in and concern for the future. It is with this thought in mind that we dedicate this month to the care of our pioneer cemeteries:”1
Many others have since followed suit, with other counties, historical societies, and even cemeteries making similar proclamations that apply to all cemeteries.
In the past, I have celebrated by making myself a bucket list of fun things to do that can be completed during the month. Last year, I created a set of 4 Cemetery Bingo Cards (PDF) that you can print out and take with you on your next cemetery visits.
This year I wanted to do something a little different to celebrate, by making a little cemetery terrarium that I can hopefully keep year-round.
A cute little reminder of the places I love so much.
A true terrarium is a miniature, self-sustaining garden ecosystem that is usually contained in a small sealable glass jar. Placed in the sun, it becomes self-watering through a cycle of condensation and evaporation. Once sealed, there should be no need to re-open the jar again, although it doesn’t hurt to give it a little spritz if needed.
Things you’ll need:
a sealable glass container
plants (moss, ferns, etc.)
gravel or lava rock
sand or activated charcoal
mesh screen
soil
cemetery decor
Tools:
tweezers
spray bottle filled with water
How to make a Cemetery Terrarium
First things first, you will need to choose the container that will house your little cemetery.
Look for a sealable glass container that has a wide mouth. This will make it easier to build your cemetery within it.
I found my container at a local thrift store, but you can also look for the perfect container at your local dollar store as well. If you are going for a specific look, you might get lucky at Michael’s Craft Store, but they can be on the more expensive side, so if you do go that route make sure to check their website for a coupon.
Next, you will need some plants!
To best mimic the look of a cemetery I am going with moss, but you can go with whatever you like best. Keep in mind that a closed terrarium creates a high-humidity environment, so you want to choose plants that will do well in that setting. Ferns and mosses both do well in a terrarium.
The benefit of using moss is the ability to build up your little landscape in chunks, to create a more natural-looking terrain. This will come in handy when placing your gravestones and other decor as well.
Now we can start building our terrarium from the bottom up.
First, add about an inch of gravel or lava rock to the bottom of your glass container. This layer will act as your drainage, creating space for any excess water. This will also help prevent root rot.
Next, fill in the spaces between the gravel with sand or activated charcoal. This will add an extra layer of filtration.
After that, lay the mesh screen on top. This screen will allow water to pass through but will stop the soil from mixing into the drainage layer. This will also create a barrier to slow down roots, and help prevent root rot.
Now that we have a strong foundation for our terrarium, it’s time to start adding the soil.
The type of soil you use is up to you. There are soil mixes made specifically for terrariums, such as ABG mix or Terrarium mix, but potting soil can work just as well.
You want to add enough soil to contain the plant roots comfortably.
To add dimension to your landscape, and if you have the space in your container, you can create different elevations by adding a slope or valley into your soil layer.
Now it’s time to start building our miniature landscape.
To start, give the soil a light misting. This will make the soil a bit easier to work with. Now you can start arranging your plants.
Break apart your moss into manageable chunks. This will help make placement easier, as well as working around your gravestones and other decor.
Using the tweezers to place and build up my moss, I incorporated some miniature gravestones and a coffin to flesh out my cemetery.
Add moss until all the soil is covered.
I used gravestones and coffins from the Lemax Spooky Town Collection that I purchased from Michaels a few years ago. These are pre-painted and stand about 1 inch tall. But there are other cemetery sets out there for purchase, some that are 3D printed and unpainted so you can customize your cemetery.
For an added touch, you can add small branches to your terrarium to create the illusion of trees.
Now that your cemetery is ready, it’s time to give it one last watering before sealing it up. Give your cemetery a light spray, with just enough water to make the soil damp.
Then go ahead and put the lid on, to seal your container, and admire your new miniature cemetery!
Your new mini cemetery should be pretty self-sustaining, but to get the most life out of your terrarium, make sure to place your terrarium somewhere that gets plenty of bright, indirect sunlight. Infrequent direct sunlight won’t hurt it, but too much direct sunlight can burn your plants. If you notice your cemetery looking too dry, or your plants look wilted—give your terrarium a light watering, making sure not to soak it.
I hope you enjoyed this little tutorial on how to make your own cemetery terrarium. I had a lot of fun creating mine and putting this little how-to together. It was a little out of my comfort zone, but I had fun experimenting and exploring the world of terrariums.
I found it particularly fun designing my cemetery landscape and thinking about what my favorite elements of a cemetery are and trying to incorporate that into my final design.
I can’t wait to see what you create! Make sure to tag me on Instagram and Facebook.
When I was a child, my family often made trips to Quebec to visit extended family. My father loved to use the shortcut through Field, as it cut about 30 miles off our five-hour drive to Val d’Or. We always stopped for a meal at the McDonald’s beside Ms. Claybelt, the 12-foot-tall Holstein cow.
On the way back from our family visits we would add another stop to our route, which also became a road trip tradition. That was stopping at a small unassuming Book Shop that sits beside Highway 11.
I have many fond memories of this little highway book shop, that today sits abandoned. Just like the many books that have sat on the now neglected shelves, the Book Shop has its own interesting story to tell.
When Douglas Pollard opened his small print shop, called Pollard Press in 1957, I don’t think he ever imagined how big it would become. What started as a small commercial print shop in his garage, printing general office stationary eventually turned into a Northern cultural landmark.1
The story goes that one of Pollard’s customers asked to barter used books instead of cash to pay his bills. From then on the demand for books became greater and the shop expanded many times over the years to accommodate the growing collection of books.1
Being originally a print shop, it was a natural move for Pollard to start printing and publishing books in the 1970s2. 467 original titles were published through the Highway Book Shop, focusing on local history and Canadian literature.1
What started as a 20’ x 25’ wooden building eventually expanded into a 10,000 square footprint, consisting of building add-ons and even three highway trailers that were used to store nothing but books.2No wonder so many people made it a mandatory stop in their travels, sometimes just to experience the sheer size of its collection.
I remember as a young girl getting lost among the stacks of books. It was so mind-blowing to me that the staff could find anything in that sea of books. However, the inventory was well maintained and kept very up-to-date. The Book Shop even maintained a list for those looking for specific titles. You could add your name to the list with your desired title and eventually, you might get a call that your book was found. Naturally, this could take some time, even years!2
Pollard, and his first wife Jean Ririe Hope, spent a lot of time at book fairs and conventions, always on the hunt for good books to add to their shop. Pollard even purchased lots of discarded Library books, that were sometimes hit-or-miss for quality.
After Pollard’s first wife passed away, he eventually remarried and brought his second wife into the fold of the Highway Book Shop. Mary Lois Williams was a Librarian with a Master of Library Science from the University of Toronto. She left the Librarian life trading it to work in the Book Shop when she married Pollard in 1986.3
After Pollard died in 2009, Lois worked to keep the Book Shop running. It was a valiant effort, but she ultimately decided to close the shop in 2011. At 87 years old, her heart was just not in the same way anymore.1
Visiting Cobalt
I visited Cobalt in October of 2022 with my mother. We wanted to take advantage of the fall colors and visit some local historical sites. We also wanted to visit Douglas and Lois Pollard in the cemetery, to pay our respects.
We spent most of our time in Cobalt visiting the Heritage Silver Trail, a self-guided trail system that takes you to 14 locations throughout the small town, that highlights the history of the silver mining rush. Unfortunately, when we visited, a lot of places were closed. This was also the case of the bookstore we had hoped to visit, White Mountain Publications.
White Mountain Publications was high on our list to visit as it houses some books that were rescued from the Highway Book Shop after it closed. I was hoping to speak to someone about how many books were rescued and if there were plans to rescue more. White Mountain also published a book that I was hoping to purchase on this trip, called Highway Book Shop: Northern Ontario’s Unexpected Treasure written by Lois Pollard. I ended up purchasing the book through White Mountain’s website instead.
Of course, there were many cemetery stops planned for this trip, but the one we wanted to visit most was the Cobalt Veterans Cemetery. This cemetery is located in Haileybury, a small town adjacent to Cobalt. The cemetery sits beside two other cemeteries; directly beside Mount Pleasant Cemetery, and across the road from the Haileybury Catholic Cemetery.
The Cobalt Veterans Cemetery is the smallest of the three, although Find a Grave lists 332 memorials. I would not have thought there were that many laid to rest there based on the cemetery’s small size. It did make finding the Pollards less of a challenge.
Douglas Pollard passed away on November 25, 2009, at the age of 84. His obituary states that he passed away suddenly at Temiskaming Hospital4, but in her book Highway Book Shop, Lois briefly touches on that fateful night. Like any other normal day, after closing time Pollard went upstairs to retire for the night, as they lived in a small apartment above the book shop. When she followed him upstairs, only ten minutes later, she found that he had “quietly passed away”. Doctors confirmed that he had died of cardiac arrest.2
Douglas is laid to rest beside his second wife, Lois Pollard who passed away on January 3, 2020, at the age of 98. Their gravestone reads: “Pollard / Douglas C. Pollard. C.M. / March 18, 1925 — Nov. 25, 2009 / Beloved Husband of / Mary Lois Williams / July 21, 1922 — Jan. 3, 2020”
Douglas’s first wife, Jean Pollard is laid to rest in Valleyview Cemetery in New Liskeard. Jean passed away in October of 1979, unexpectedly on the operating table during a planned second open-heart surgery.2
The Book Shop Today
The Book Shop closed its doors forever on May 29, 2011. In 2012 it was purchased by new owners, but the Book Shop never re-opened.5 Rumour has it that the inventory of approximately one million books1was left behind on the shelves. As noted above, White Mountain Publishers did rescue some of the books, but is it true that the large majority were left behind?
When we visited the Highway Book Shop on our way back home from visiting Cobalt, we took some time to walk around the building outside. The large sign that stands by the road that once welcomed visitors is slowly deteriorating. The building facade has peeled and faded over the years, and the grass is now growing wild.
We were hoping to catch a glimpse of the stacks of books inside, instead, we got a whiff of the strong musty smell of old books. Depending on where you stand outside the front of the building, you can catch that unmistakable smell. I can just imagine what it must smell like inside the building.
While touring the grounds we chatted about our memories of visiting the Book Shop. My mother remembers speaking with Lois on our many visits over the years. We also talked about the books—about all the books that were left behind, and wondering about what types of books we could find given the chance. Both of us are not brave enough to cross into urban exploration territory, but luckily we are not the only curious ones.
The good people over at Freaktography have ventured inside to document what the Book Shop looks like today and prove once and for all that the rumor is true, they did leave the books behind. You can watch their video Exploring a HUGE Abandoned Book Store over on their YouTube channel.
Their video and photos show a time capsule, and books in rows upon rows of bookshelves for as far as the eye can see. It looks just like I remember. I am not the only one who has tried to imagine what an abandoned building full of molding and rotting books might smell like. The folks at Freaktography have been asked the question before:
“I have been asked by people, “What did it smell like in there?”, it smells exactly like you would think it does – like old books. It has warm, thick air and the rows upon rows of books give a muffled sensation when talking, there is no echo and it is eerily silent.”6
I can only imagine how surreal it would be to walk through those stacks again. Watching the walk-through video does make me a bit sad though. So many books left behind. I wonder what unique and rare finds there might be, what treasure could be found. I mean a lot of those books might be dated and useless now, such as the maps and tech manuals. But just imagine what old and out-of-print finds there might be buried in there as well.
Maybe one day someone will be given the go-ahead to slowly pour through those lost tomes, and bring some of them back into the light. I know I would love to, given the chance.
It was really interesting looking into the backstory of this abandoned landmark, and a piece of my childhood. Learning about the lives and passions of the people who brought the Book Shop to life highlights the fact that there are so many interesting stories out there.
I don’t know why, but Spring often makes me think of carrot cake. So when I was trying to decide which recipe I should make this month, the answer was pretty obvious. Maybe it’s because Easter often falls in April, or because Easter reminds me of picking fresh carrots from the garden when I was a kid. Either way, it’s always a good time to bake a cake.
So for this month’s gravestone recipe, I wanted to try my hand at making Kim’s carrot cake. This recipe comes from the gravestone of Kimette Lee DeCota, from Cape County Memorial Park Cemetery in Cape Girardeau, Missouri. Kim passed away in August of 2014 at the age of 57.
Reading her obituary on Find A Grave, you will see many references to food and cooking. It describes a passionate woman who loved her family and community. Kim was very active in the church, cooking meals as well as helping her parents in the kitchen among other things.
I would love to know more about the recipe inscribed on her gravestone. Was this her go-to recipe? Maybe her signature dessert? I may never find out, but it warms my heart to know that someone so passionate about cooking can continue to share their passion from beyond the grave.
Gravestone of Kimette Lee DeCota, Cape County Memorial Park Cemetery, Cape Girardeau MO. Photo by Find a Grave member Brenda Johnson. Photo used with permission.
Here is the recipe, as written on the gravestone:
Kim’s Carrot Cake
3 cups unbleached all-purpose flour
3 cups sugar
1 teaspoon salt
1 tablespoon baking soda
1 tablespoon ground cinnamon
1-1/2 cups corn oil
4 large eggs, lightly beaten
1 tablespoon vanilla extract
1-1/2 cups shredded coconut
1-1/2 cups shelled walnuts, chopped
1-1/3 cups puréed cooked carrots
3/4 cup drained crushed pineapple
Preheat oven to 350F. Grease two 9-inch springform pans.
Sift dry ingredients into a bowl. Add oil, eggs, vanilla. Beat well. Fold in the walnuts, coconut, carrots, pineapple.
Pour batter into the prepared pans. Set on the center rack of the oven and bake until the edges have pulled away from the sides and a cake tester inserted in the center comes out clean, 50 minutes.
Cool on a cake rack for 3 hours. Fill and frost the cake with the cream cheese frosting.
Cream Cheese Frosting
Doubling the frosting recipe is highly recommended.
8 ounces cream cheese, at room temperature
6 tablespoons unsalted butter, at room temperature
3 cups confectioners’ sugar
1 teaspoon vanilla extract
Juice of 1/2 lemon (optional)
Cream the cream cheese and butter in a mixing bowl.
Slowly sift in the confectioners’ sugar and continue beating until ingredients are fully incorporated. The mixture should be free of lumps.
Stir in the vanilla, and lemon juice if desired.
Serve with love.
This recipe is very easy to follow and has very detailed instructions. I found it interesting that the recipe takes up almost all of the room on the gravestone. On the left hand of the stone is an ingredient list and directions to make the cake, while the right-hand side has the ingredient list and instructions to make the frosting. I love that the first note is to double the frosting recipe. I like the way Kim thinks!
I made this recipe in two parts, first baking the cake and then frosting the next day. For some reason, I only have one spring-form pan so I had to bake the layers one at a time. I really need to rectify that. After the first cake layer was done baking, I took it out of the pan and sat it on a wire rack to cool. I wiped down and reassembled the spring-form pan and poured in the last of the batter. I then put that in the oven to bake.
The recipe calls for the cake to be cooled for three hours. After I took the second layer out of the oven it was fairly late in the evening, so I placed both layers in the fridge to cool overnight.
After work the next day, I set to work making the frosting. I took the cake out of the fridge and placed it on the table to warm up a bit while I mixed the frosting. I know the recipe recommends doubling the frosting, but I found that one batch made more than enough frosting for me.
Although the instructions were incredibly easy to follow, I do think I messed up a little bit. I baked each cake layer in the oven for the instructed 50 minutes, but didn’t check on them at all. 50 minutes turned out to be too long for my oven; I think I over-baked the cake. It wasn’t burned or anything like that, but the edges became very hard and crisp. So hard that I had trouble cutting the cake when it came time to try a piece. If I were to make this recipe again, I would start checking on the cake at about the 30-minute mark and doing a toothpick test to see if it’s cooked through.
I also think I didn’t frost the cake properly. I think I might be a bit rusty at making cakes! I was afraid to use up too much frosting in between the cake layers so I frosted that section sparingly. I shouldn’t have been worried though, as I had way too much frosting left over.
I hoped that the frosting would help moisten and soften the cake a bit, but it’s still a bit hard to cut. Other than the human error on my part, this recipe turned out great. This delicious cake is sweet, and the shredded coconut adds a nice flavor to the mix. I would definitely make this one again!
Have you tried this recipe? I would love to hear how yours turned out, and if you have any baking tips for me.
Two weeks ago, I went on my first cemetery road trip of 2024. I was inspired by a book I read at the end of March, called Muskoka’s Most Haunted 2 by Andrew Hind. I have read a few of Hind’s books that have inspired some cemetery road trips, but this one was a bit serendipitous. I was already planning a trip to the Muskokas this summer and had a few cemeteries mapped out, one of which just so happened to be featured in the book. I took that, and the warmer weather, as a sign it was time to get back in the field.
The Muskoka District is located north of Lake Simcoe and extends from the southeast shore of Georgian Bay to Algonquin Provincial Park.1Sometimes referred to as cottage country, the Muskoka area is well known for its beautiful landscapes and rugged shorelines.
The Muskokas are also home to many charming small towns. They dot the landscape among picturesque parks. It is so well known, that many celebrities spend their summer vacations here. In 2023, Shaquille O’Neal, Mark Wahlberg, and Victoria & David Beckham were all spotted in the Muskokas enjoying everything the summer has to offer.2
Small towns are usually accompanied by cemeteries. For this trip, I planned a route that would take us up and around Lake Muskoka. There are many cemeteries in the area, so I was uncertain how many we would actually be able to visit.
We left bright and early on the morning of Easter Monday, stopping for our obligatory road trip coffee before officially getting on the road. We planned to visit as many cemeteries as we could, while also visiting any attractions that may be open, and of course, stopping for a meal. That second item on the list was a little uncertain as the holiday meant that some places would be closed.
Our first cemetery stop, after enjoying the winding views in Bala, was Torrance Union Cemetery. Since it was so early in the morning, it was a bit chilly out but we still took our time exploring. We spent quite a bit of time at this cemetery, but I don’t want to go into too much detail just yet about our visit. This cemetery has some very interesting stories attached to it that I want to explore a little more in October.
Our next stop was the larger town of Gravenhurst. We made another stop for coffee and then stopped in at the three cemeteries within the city limits. We will have to go back to Gravenhurst sometime in the summer to take in the views of the waterfront and visit some attractions. That’s always the downfall of visits on a statutory holiday—everything is closed.
After a leisurely lunch at Chuck’s Roadhouse in Bracebridge, we decided to change things up a bit. Our next stop was the Woodchester. This beautiful octagonal home is a historic site, that is also an event space. It too was closed when we visited, but many walking trails surround it. Some of the trails have historical plaques that tell the story of the house and its previous owners. We were able to walk the circumference of the house and look at building maps that show what the layout of the inside looked like, when it was lived in.
The Bracebridge walking trails meander alongside the Muskoka River and waterfalls. The waterfalls were strong and thundering when we visited. Unfortunately, part of the trail was closed off, most likely due to possible flooding, so we didn’t get to enjoy the full trail. The views were still lovely though and it was a nice way to break up our day.
After that little pit stop, we visited three more cemeteries. The Annie Williams Memorial Cemetery was the smallest cemetery we visited that day. Only three people rest in that cemetery, which sits in the middle of a park and playground. This tiny gated cemetery sits under some large trees, only a few feet away from an active playground that often hears the boisterous sounds of children playing. It also sits a foot or two away from a popular little library, that was bursting at the seams with books.
As the day waned, it was time to start making our way back home. But we couldn’t help but stop at one more cemetery. Our last cemetery stop of the day was Port Carling Cemetery. That marked the end of our loop around Lake Muskoka.
This trip was a lot of fun! We ended up visiting a total of eight cemeteries, not bad for a first-time out after the cold of winter. We had beautiful weather that warmed up as the day went on which made our visits comfortable. Which means the weather can only get better from here. I look forward to my next outing and seeing where cemeteries take me.
Are you starting to think about Spring and Summer projects already? Chomping at the bit to get back out into the field, visiting cemeteries? I know I am. The snow is gone, and the weather is warming up, which has me daydreaming about cemetery road trips. Maybe you have some bigger projects in mind, like mapping out a local cemetery?
I might just have the perfect book recommendation for you!
Recently, Robert Perry, also known as the Bone Finder, reached out to me about reviewing a book. He had seen one of my previous book reviews and thought I might be interested in reviewing his new book Cemetery Mapping Techniques & Applications, an illustrated reference guide. Perry describes his book as a training manual for cemeterians and professionals that service the cemetery industry. I received a free advanced PDF copy of the book, in exchange for an honest review.
Robert “Bob” Perry is a specialist in cemetery geophysics and has many years of experience using ground-penetrating radar to locate unmarked graves. He has worked with more than 500 cemeteries within the United States, as well as law enforcement and paranormal investigators. Perry has also been featured on the History Channel, the Travel Channel, and Destination America.1
Published in 2022 by Topo Graphix LLC, Cemetery Mapping Techniques & Applications provides readers with a hands-on approach to field mapping a cemetery, using both field-mapping techniques and the basics of mapping software.
“This publication covers all phases of cemetery mapping, from site surveying and computerized drafting to the software applications used every day in the business. This one-of-a-kind publication includes tutorials on subjects such as field mapping, scanning, and redrafting old cemetery maps, and how ground-penetrating radar is used to locate unmarked graves and open burial spaces.”
Currently, this book is only available as a limited-edition spiral-bound field manual that can only be purchased through the author’s website, topographix.com. I’m not going got lie, it is a little pricy. The author did share with me that a less expensive perfect-bound version and PDF version will be coming out soon. The advanced PDF version I received features full-colour images, illustrations, and diagrams and is 132 pages. The book also contains four detailed cemetery map examples at the back.
Although it has a short page count, this book holds a lot of information. The chapters on how to use various mapping software are very thorough, walking readers through step-by-step. The software heavily featured in the book are CorelDRAW and AutoCAD, both software I have heard of but have never used. I am however very familiar with Adobe Illustrator—I am a graphic designer by trade. Because of my familiarity with that program, which is briefly mentioned in the book, I was able to follow along fairly easily with the walk-throughs. CorelDRAW does seem to have similar features and capabilities, albeit they are named differently.
Although I have no aspirations to ever map out a cemetery, it is interesting to see how much work and detail goes into it. The sections I found most interesting were the pieces around the author’s background and experience, as well as the case studies explored later in the book. The how-to piece is of course the main focus of the book, but the case studies show why creating these maps and doing that work is important. They are also interesting, like the example of the vampire grave! The case studies do well to illustrate the why, but I found they were very short. I would have liked to see those examples expanded upon a little bit more.
Overall, I found Cemetery Mapping Techniques & Applications a great introduction to the software programs used in the field of cemetery mapping. It’s an informative how-to and starting point for those looking to create their own cemetery maps. This would be a great resource for tech-savvy folks who are looking to get into the field of cemetery mapping, or cemetery groups looking to map their respective cemeteries.
Is cemetery mapping something you are interested in getting into? Do you think there should be more resources like this available on the market? Don’t be shy to share your thoughts in the comments.
Thanks for reading!
I am always on the hunt for cemetery-related book recommendations. Please feel free to share yours in the comments. If you are an author and have a cemetery-related book you would like me to review, please reach out at hello@chantallarochelle.ca. I would love to hear from you.
I first came across puddingstone while visiting cemeteries on St. Joseph Island. My mother and I visited the island in 2022, with plans to visit every cemetery on the island. We started to notice many gravestones made out of this unique stone. We also found large pieces of it left at gravesites, and in one instance possibly used as a temporary marker. I wanted to learn more about this peculiar stone.
During our visit to the island, we had a private tour of Adcock’s Woodland Gardens. The gardens, that sprawl for acres, are filled with beautiful trails and ponds, and hundreds of varieties of plants and flowers. My mother was in heaven. At the end of the tour, as we were heading back to the car, I noticed a cute little wishing well that looked to be made out of the same spotted stone we found in the cemeteries. I asked our tour guide about it. Grant, the owner of Adcock’s Woodland Gardens, was happy to share that this type of rock, native to the St. Joseph Island area is called Puddingstone.
Puddingstone is everywhere on the island. When we visited Historic Fort St. Joseph, we were greeted by a large boulder of puddingstone at the entrance of the Visitor Centre. Since puddingstone is native to the area, when my mother and I toured the ruins, we spent some time at the water’s edge to see what we could find. Although we did find a few interesting rocks and pebbles, we didn’t find any puddingstone. There was also a sign at the waterfront asking that nothing be taken from the area. It is an archaeological site after all.
On our way out, we of course checked out the little gift shop. Alas, no puddingstone for sale. I was a little disappointed because there was a beautiful piece of puddingstone sitting at their front desk. It was a baseball-sized chunk, that was mostly all natural and rough except for a smooth clean cut, showing the inside of the stone.
We left the island without a sample of the stone, but I never forgot about it. I found it curious that it seemed like such a common material on the island, with countless gravestones made from it. I also found it curious that it was also a common grave good on the island. I wanted a little piece of my own.
Puddingstone is a jasper conglomerate, a form of sedimentary rock composed of rounded cobblestone and other pebble-sized fragments. Conglomerates are formed by river and ocean wave movement.1In Canada, puddingstone is commonly found on St. Joseph Island and in Bruce Mines, Ontario.2 It is unique to this part of Algoma.
The name Puddingstone comes from British settlers who were stationed in the area, they thought the pale sedimentary rock, dotted with red and brown jasper, looked like “boiled suet pudding with berries”.3
The Last Spike Stone Cairn, a cairn marking the location of where the last spike was driven for the Canadian Pacific Railway, includes rocks from across Canada. Can you guess what stone was sent from Ontario?
That’s right, it was a piece of puddingstone from Bruce Mines.4
The search continues
I checked in with my local gem and mineral shops to see if they carried puddingstone. Surprisingly, they didn’t know what it was. My next thought was to look at any upcoming gem and mineral shows or fairs.
I stopped in at the Galaxy Psychic & Crystal Fair. This weekend event happens annually in the Spring and Fall, but this was my first time attending. I thought there might be some gem and crystal vendors who might be able to help me. Again, no one knew what puddingstone was. One vendor was curious as to what puddingstone was used for. With a Google search, we discovered that it’s thought to have many metaphysical properties and benefits, with dream recall being one.5 She suggested that may be why I was searching for it. Maybe? I was more interested in its use in cemeteries.
I decided it might be time to visit Bruce Mines again. I planned a cemetery road trip for the summer of 2023. The plan was to visit a few cemeteries, check out some antique shops, have a chip truck lunch, and visit the Bruce Mines Museum. I had read a well-timed Back Roads Bill article about some of the oldest graves in Northern Ontario, and there just so happened to be one in Bruce Mines. According to the article, the Bruce Mines Museum has in its collection, a wooden grave marker that is dated October 6th, 1850, and March 20th, 1851, for two victims of the 1849 cholera epidemic.6
Unfortunately, the Museum was closed when we arrived. I did double-check the operating hours before going, but I found out later that the Museum was short-staffed that summer, and didn’t always follow their posted hours. But we did get to see more Puddingstone. There are a few large pieces of puddingstone decorating the museum grounds.
My mother and I were both a bit disappointed that we didn’t get to visit the museum, but it wasn’t the end of our trip. We still had some antique shops to visit. We saw a lot of interesting items in the shops, but no puddingstone for sale. I did make sure to ask. At the last shop we visited, my mother found a couple of interesting books, so while she was cashing out I asked the clerk if they had any puddingstone. At this point, I didn’t expect them to have any, and they didn’t.
But they knew where I could find some!
I was directed to a small artists workshop, that doubles as a gift shop called S&S Creations. To my surprise, the shop was full of puddingstone! The shop features beautiful stained glass artwork, that uses traditional stained glass, but also very thinly cut puddingstone. There was puddingstone in all shapes and forms—from book ends and coasters to large stone pieces and jewelry.
The shop belongs to artist Stephanie and her husband and stone cutter, Steve. With over ten years of experience, they take on projects of all sizes, from furniture and custom work to more delicate art pieces and home accessories. No one up to this point had any idea what puddingstone was, so I was so happy to talk to Stephanie. She told me that she had encountered the same thing, and found it as strange as I did. I guess Puddingstone is a hidden gem!
She asked me how I learned about puddingstone and I told her about my passion for visiting cemeteries, and how the gravestones had piqued my curiosity. It turns out that Stephanie and her shop were responsible for the creation of a lot of the puddingstone markers I had visited. We had a very good conversation, and I was able to finally get my own piece of Puddingstone.
I always find it interesting where cemeteries take me, and this was a fun example of that. There is always something new to be learned. I wonder where cemeteries will take me next?
If you spend a lot of time in cemeteries you will often start to notice the repetition of certain cemetery symbols and motifs. In Ontario, more so in southern Ontario, urns tend to be a common gravestone symbol.
Although cremation was rarely practiced in North America at the time, the urn became a popular symbol in the Victorian era. Urns as a funerary symbol were adapted from Ancient Greece. Cremation was commonly practiced by the Ancient Greeks, who used ceremonial urns. As a gravestone symbol, the urn represents the body reduced to its most basic elements and the ascension of the spirit to heaven. Today cremation is a common practice, having started its climb to popularity in the 1980s.
I have found and photographed many urns during my cemetery walks, so today I wanted to share some of them with you.
Like many graveyard symbols, the urn can be found depicted in a variety of ways. Each version of the symbol has a slightly different meaning. This is one of the reasons I find cemetery symbolism so interesting. It is a language unto itself.
The Victorians were very fond of drapery, and you might come across what looks to be a fabric made of stone draped over an urn. Fabric draped over a gravestone is often thought to symbolize the veil between life and death. The fabric might also represent the shedding of earthly clothes as the deceased moves from this life to the afterlife.
I have been craving peanut butter lately so I thought it would be a perfect time to try another gravestone recipe. This recipe went viral in June of 2023 after Twitter (now X) user SoloFlow786 replied to a Stephen King tweet with a photo of a peanut butter cookie gravestone recipe. The photo quickly went viral, amassing 500k views and over 5,000 likes.1
Unfortunately, I wasn’t able to learn much about this recipe, or whose gravestone it is written on. According to Rosie Grant, of Ghostly Archive it might be inscribed on a gravestone somewhere in Raymond, Maine. I did find that after this tweet went viral, many folks tried their hand at making this recipe, with great success.
Interestingly, some users on Reddit think this recipe is a variation of an old Betty Crocker recipe from the 1950s. From what I could find, the recipes are a bit similar. The gravestone version does omit a few things and has the added touch of the chocolate kiss.
Gravestone engraved with peanut butter cookie recipe. Photo credit: Twitter/X user @SoloFlow786
Here is the recipe, as written on the gravestone:
Peanut Butter Cookies
1/2 C Brown Sugar
1/2 C White Sugar
1 Tbsp Sugar
1/2 C Crunchy Peanut Butter
1/4 C Butter Shortening
1 Egg
1 C Flour
1 Tsp Baking Soda
Mix in order given. Roll into balls, then roll in sugar. Cross mash with fork. Bake 10 minutes at 350 degrees. Place chocolate kiss on top of cookie while still warm.
This is a pretty straightforward recipe with few ingredients. So it didn’t take long to whip up a batch. The longest part of the process I found, was rolling the cookie dough into even-sized balls.
The extra tsp of sugar that the recipe calls for, is for rolling the cookie dough into. For my batch, since it was St. Patrick’s Day on March 17th, I decided I would try adding a touch of green to be festive. I managed to find some green sanding sugar, but unfortunately, it was more of a pastel green. More for Easter than St. Paddy’s, so after baking the green colour had pretty much disappeared.
I spaced the cookies out evenly on two baking sheets. My batch made 19 cookies. I found my dough was a bit crumbly, so after mashing it with a fork, they didn’t keep a round shape and some crumbled a little bit. They didn’t spread out too much and kept their crumbly shape. They still taste delicious though.
I found making this recipe was a little different for me. I often find myself talking aloud to the person whose gravestone the recipe comes from, but this time I don’t know who this recipe belongs to. I find talking out loud while I bake or cook helps me connect to the person. I hope one day I can find out where this gravestone recipe comes from. It would be lovely to be able to put a name to the gravestone.
Until then, I will highly recommend this delicious peanut butter recipe to anyone craving a sweet peanut butter treat.
Cemetery Photography by Chantal Larochelle 